Deciding to use Jobs as a starting point, I soon realized the Turtle let me check my giveashitometer nope nothing vintage shirt in other words I will buy this answer to a curated (and not constricting) wardrobe resided in flipping what’s considered a “wardrobe essential,” a term typically reserved for an amalgam of boring basics, on its head. More basics wouldn’t save me time—honing in on the pieces that made me excited to get dressed in the morning would. If I happened across a new, must-have dress or skirt. Even at a stop with the engine off, when the lack of a synchro would have no effect. Someone accidentally trying to shift to 6th in a 5-speed transmission with R under 5 could end up back in 4th. That’s the biggest risk in that configuration, and I’ve not seen a car with 4th redlining under 100 mph in recent history. So unless you are racing and hitting the top end of 5th on the back straight, and absent-mindedly looking for 6th at 130 mph, you’ll not run into any problems shifting from 5th to 4th, looking for 6th. My favorite was the VW Bug I drove where 1 was top left, 2 was top right, 3 was bottom left. And 4 was bottom right. My memory tells me R was by 1, but it was so long ago, I don’t remember with certainty. If anyone reading this knows what that configuration was called, please leave it in a comment. Oh yes definitely. It’s narcissist supply to them if you are texting or calling them wanting to know why they discarded you. And they especially like to hear how upset you are that they dumped you. It feeds their ego. And remember there is never or usually ever closure with a narcissist so most people are left wondering what the hell happened after they’ve been discarded. So most people would want a response as to why they did that. But they won’t give you one. They will ignore you and give you the silent treatment while sucking up all the supplies you’re giving them by contacting them. Narcissists don’t like to deal with problems in relationships like real people do. They will run for the hills and disappear rather than dealing with any problems that come up where they actually have to communicate with you. Or they will just use their manipulation tactics instead of talking things out. Like projection, denial, etc. So yes they would definitely be wondering why first of all you’re not even texting them in the least bit trying to talk to them.
Turtle let me check my giveashitometer nope nothing vintage shirt, hoodie, tank top, sweater and long sleeve t-shirt
I’d think of Jobs’ no BS attitude, and swap out one of my other 20 allotted pieces. While 20 essentials may be the Turtle let me check my giveashitometer nope nothing vintage shirt in other words I will buy this right number for me, perhaps 7 (for each day of the week) or 30 (for each day of the month) is right for you. Take a look at the below list for inspiration about how to build your own collection of wardrobe-essentials. Get ready to spend less time getting dressed, and more time enjoying life. I think he would really be thrown off by you not contacting him because they’re probably used to women contacting them after the discard wanting them back or wanting to know why they just disappeared and moved on to their new supply. They are probably also used to angry women wanting to give them a piece of their mind too for what they did. They love the negative supply as well. So while you’re calling them every name in the book, they’re eating it up. Taking it as a criticism mind you, but still eating it up as well because they know they got to you, hurt you, and made you upset. Also, because they know you must have cared about them too if you’re that upset. And they won in their minds. Because it’s always and only a game to them. In my situation with my Ex Narcissist, I knew what he was already and all his tricks the weekend he discarded me. Well, I shouldn’t say discarded because he has hoovered me already. Six months later while living with the supply he dumped me for. I kind of knew all along there was someone else but he was real good at hiding it so I couldn’t bring it up to him with no proof. That weekend was different though than any other. He was a lot more demeaning to me, cold and callous, and just plain horrible. All in front of his friends too. We were going to his softball’s teams BBQ and when we stopped at the liquor store he didn’t even ask me if I wanted anything before he went in. I was the only one in the car he didn’t ask too. He had done that before but not in front of a car full of people. He totally ignored me the entire day. Rolled his eyes if I asked him a question making it seem like I was a burden for being there.